Although I believe that this structure is important for children, I think it has a price, when every moment of his young life is planned and directed. If you have children the opportunity to literally smell the roses (or some non-flowering thorn!)?
When I was a young mother, I heard a story of a mother, a very troubled life (like most of us did.) When he took his daughter from one activity to another, saw the window of his daughter ' car and noticed the wildflowerswere planted by the roadside.
"Look Beautiful flowers!" she cried, her eyes wide and flat noses against the glass.
When his mother wanted to tell her daughter that she had no time to fetch the car and examine the flowers, looked in the mirror in the miracle of her daughter's face. The child was fascinated.
On that day the mother took over the car and she and her daughter came out and played among the wild flowers for a while '. SaidIt was a reminder that she and her son would never forget.
This story has a great influence on me. As a parent I have tried to follow their example and sufficient time for spontaneous moments. I've always found the most memorable experiences with my children who were not provided.
So after the scheduled lectures, classes, birthday parties, and all the things you have for your child, try to make some spontaneous moments. I'm sure you will not regret.
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